THIS IS STRICTLY PERSONAL [YOU MUST AMEND YOUR MARRIAGE VOWS]

THIS IS STRICTLY PERSONAL [YOU MUST AMEND YOUR MARRIAGE VOWS]

The day you decided to follow Me, you knew it would cost you some friendships, and maybe even your job, but you never thought it could cost your trusted friend, your kids and even your spouse. Every salvation and every kingdom promotion is strictly personal, and has a big price tag! A complete separation process, is of fundamental importance, in order to create intimacy between My Father and his human creation.

The relationship you have with Me must never be based on a connection with another human. Let Me put it another way, "If anyone comes to Me and does not hate his own father and mother in the sense of indifference to or relative disregard for them in comparison with his attitude toward God and likewise his wife and children and brothers and sisters--yes and even his own life also--he cannot be My disciple." Luke 14:26 (AMP)

My use of the word hate, does not mean to literally hate but to put everyone in the back seat and Me in the drivers seat of your life. The back seat position will not be accepted by many in your life. Some will say, your no fun anymore, yet you will be having more fun than ever. Every wrongdoer hates (loathes, detests) the Light, and will not come out into the Light but shrinks from it, lest his works (his deeds, his activities, his conduct) be exposed and reproved." John 3:20 (AMP) They will detest the back seat because the longer I drive the brighter your life gets, exposing their deeds in the back seat. Eventually, they will either come to the light, or the back doors will open and they will bail out.

This is why your commitment to Me is strictly personal. You must put Me ahead of everyone of your friends and relatives including your spouse, because those that hate the light, will cause you to break your commitment to Me, and quickly move into the drivers seat, steering you back into the darkness. By putting Me in the drivers seat "you become a new creation (a new creature altogether); the old previous moral and spiritual condition has passed away. Behold, the fresh and new has come!" 2 Corinthians 5:17 (AMP)
The true born again experience places ALL previous vows in a secondary position, including your marriage vows.

Your spouse must be willing to allow your new vow to Me, to take precedence over your vow to them. Your marriage vow, to put to put her or him, above all others, has now been amended, to say, "with the exception of the King of Kings". A controlling wife will hate the back seat with a passion, and will bail out if she she sees your commitment to Me is stronger than to her. This will be the hardest test of your salvation experience.

When a husband realizes his wife has put her submission to Me, ahead of his ungodly desires, he will either submit to
Me or bail out. Sad to say, many salvations are not personal, and they soon kick Me out of the drivers seat, because of the tremendous strain of being torn apart. The pain of losing a relationship to those who love darkness, is too much for them to bear. When they hear this saying, they will join the rich the young man, and go away sorrowful: for he was more committed to his great possessions." Matthew 19:22 (KJV)

"Many are called (invited and summoned), but few are chosen," Matthew 22:14 (AMP) because they are unwilling to go through the pain of this tearing process. Every kingdom person must pass this test or they will not fit through the narrow gate. The gate is only big enough for one at a time. If a spouse says, I am not going through, the choice must be made, do you die the second death, with your spouse, or live with Me, now and eternally. Those of you that have a willing spouse, children and friends, should greatly rejoice that you were able to keep your relationships.

There are times your salvation experience is not all, happy clappy. "I do not always come to bring peace upon the earth; I do not come to bring peace, when it comes to separating you from darkness, but a sword. [35] For I have come to part asunder a man from his father, and a daughter from her mother, and a newly married wife from her mother-in-law-- [36] And a man''s foes will be they of his own household. [37] He who loves and takes more pleasure in any relationship, more than in Me, is not worthy of Me; and he who loves and takes more pleasure in son or daughter more than in Me is not worthy of Me; [38] And he who does not take up his cross and follow Me cleave steadfastly to Me, conforming wholly to My example in living and, if need be, in dying also is not worthy of Me." Matthew 10:34-38 (AMP)

In all of this tearing and pain, remember this kingdom rule, NEVER KICK ANYONE OUT THE BACK DOOR let them bail if they wish, but the choice must be theirs. My love in you, will be the only thing that haunts them, because there is no law against it. Love may not change them but will never fail to haunt them! Let them go if they insist, because you have made a new vow, and the gate is designed for one at a time. Now, you that have made our love very personal, lift up your head and rejoice, because "anyone and everyone who has left houses or brothers or sisters or father or mother or children or lands for My name's sake will receive many even a hundred times more and will inherit eternal life." Matthew 19:29 (AMP)

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Jim Hammerle

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